Why dont Christians use their testimony

Q: Why dont Christians use their testimony to draw people to Christ?

If you have a supernatural testimony to share with believers and non Christians about the power of God... why constantly point to the Bible? Didnt the Apostle Paul go around sharing his supernatural testimony about how Jesus appeared, blinded him and saved him?

When God shows up to you He is going to give you a testimony to share. Isnt this better than keep pointing people to the Bible? 

A: You are misunderstanding the purpose of the Gospel, and when & how to use a testimony. 

If you read the Bible, you will learn that the Apostle Paul DID NOT "share his testimony" in any of the cities or towns where he preached and went in missions to. What he Did was "point to the Scriptures" to show them how Jesus of Nazareth was the Messiah and how they should [respond] repent and believe. He preached the Gospel of Jesus. 

The Gospel of salvation is that message believers were commissioned by Christ to proclaim. That is the testimony of what God has done. He transformed us into a new creation. He calls people to obey it. 

The focus is to be on God, not on you. Every salvation is a miracle. Average people's salvation is just as valid and amazing as a person who was a "worse sinner" (from mans perspective). 1 sin condemns. 1 Savior redeems. It doesn't matter what sins we committed. 

It matters that an amazing miracle of salvation occurred. Those once spiritually dead have been raised to life in Christ, forgiven of sins, made right with God, adopted by God, purpose restored, and given a Gospel mission here, (as we also grow and mature in the Faith). 

Most people only care about thrmselves (this is true of unsaved folk). They dont care about others, they only care about themselves. Thus we use ice breakers and move to the Gospel. We use the Law for its purpose; the Law is the schoolmaster to lead us to Christ. Then theyll see THEIR need for salvation. Jesus said we must be born again, and also said "Repent & believe the Gospel" (Mark 1:15). We lead folk to Christ by the Gospel. 

Romans 1:16 : "For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for IT IS THE POWER OF GOD for salvation to everyone who believes..."

1 Corinthians 1:18 : "For the word of the cross is folly to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved IT is the POWER OF GOD."

I'll share ways you can 1. use your testimony to swing to the Gospel, or include it, and 2. how to use your testimony naturally become part of ordinary conversation. This way you'll be able to reach people with the Gospel based on different situations [when not using tracts or intentionally having Gospel convos]. 

1. Your testimony can explain why you see, value, or respond to something the way you do. Inserting it into convos can point firstly to you being a Christian, and how by that you can handle things in this life, regardless what it is. 

It is more of a natural feel & can be used when opportunities allow. 

Use your testimony to explain why something matters to you

If someone asks about a habit, interest, decision, or priority, you can briefly connect it to what Christ has done in you.

• “I used to be really driven by people’s approval. Christianity has changed how I think about that...”

• “I’m still working on this, but my faith has really changed how I think about success...”

• “One thing Christianity has done for me is make me much more aware of how much I need grace...”

You're looking for a way to pivot to the Gospel transition. But at first you're letting Christianity be the guiding entrance.

Testimonies can be much broader than “I became a Christian when…”

You can talk about:

• how you used to handle conflict vs. now

• how you think about suffering

• how your view of yourself has changed

• what repentance has looked like

• how Scripture has challenged you

• how your understanding of God's sovereignty has affected anxiety

• how church community has changed you

• something God has been teaching you recently

For example:

“Honestly, I would've handled that very differently a few years ago. I'm still not great at it, but Christianity has really changed how I think about forgiveness.”

That gives the other person an opening if they want to ask more.

Answer personal questions personally

If someone asks:

“Why are you so involved with church?”

Instead of giving an abstract answer:

“Because I believe the church is important.”

You could say:

“For me, church is much more than a Sunday thing. After I understood the Gospel, I came to realize how much I actually need other Christians, especially when I'm struggling. Because we handle life differently, from a biblical worldview, and we counsel and encourage one another”

Use ordinary experiences as testimony prompts

Almost anything can become a small window into your Christian life:

Work

“I've been thinking a lot about what it means to work faithfully without making my job my identity.”

Failure

“I hate admitting this, but failure has actually been one of the ways God has shown me how much of my identity is tied to being successful.”

Family

“My family has really exposed how impatient I can be. It's been humbling. I am growing in that area and having victory over it by the power of God". 

Suffering

“I don't have an easy answer for that, but my faith has given me somewhere to go with that question.”

Forgiveness

“That's something Christianity has made me rethink a lot—what it actually means to forgive someone.”

Anxiety

“I still struggle with that, but my faith has changed what I do with the fear.”

You're engaging fallen people [or weak believers] with simply honest answers from a Christian.

Let people see the unfinished part of your testimony

This can actually be more conversational than talking about how much you've changed. But you def can note you're still a work in progress. 

Instead of:

“Since becoming a Christian, I have peace.”

Something like:

“I still get anxious about that. The difference is that I have somewhere to take it now, and I'm learning to trust God more rather than letting the anxiety run everything.”

That communicates both grace and ongoing sanctification.

As a Christian you shouldnt present yourself as the impressive part of the story. Your goal is to glorify God and draw people to Him. Your testimony can naturally emphasize God's patience, grace, providence, and work in an imperfect person. And go from there if the convo allows. If God is going to use you beyond that to that end. 

Ask about their experience after sharing yours

A really natural pattern is:

Their comment → your small piece of testimony → genuine question

For example:

“I've actually struggled with that too. Becoming a Christian really changed how I think about where my worth comes from. Do you think about that much?”

Or:

“That's interesting. My faith has given me a pretty different perspective on suffering. Would you like to know how you can too?”

You're opening a door, not dragging someone through it.

Have several “layers” of your testimony

You don't need to jump from 0 → full Gospel presentation. Not in most convos. 

Think of it as layers:

Layer 1 — Christian identity

“I'm a Christian, and that's actually shaped how I think about that.”

Layer 2 — Personal experience

“I used to really struggle with that.”

Layer 3 — What God changed

“One thing God has really changed in me is…”

Layer 4 — What you believe

“A big part of that comes from what I believe about Christ…”

Layer 5 — Gospel

“That's actually tied to something pretty central to Christianity…”

If they engage, you can go deeper. If they don't, you've still had a completely normal conversation. God will plant that seed & use it. Others may water it. He might circle back to use you more (similarly) that lead to Gospel convos next time. 

Don't make every testimony connection end with a question

Sometimes the most natural thing is simply:

“Yeah, that's actually one of the things I'm really grateful Christianity has changed in me.”

And then move on.

Paradoxically, this can make people more comfortable asking you about your faith (even then) because they don't feel like every Christian comment is a setup.

You could add to the above "Would you be interested to hear about that?" And go from there. But if the person is interested they might ask. 

A useful mindset

Rather than asking:

“How can I steer this conversation toward the Gospel?”

try:

“Where is my actual Christian life relevant to what we're already talking about?”

And then when someone genuinely becomes curious—“What do you mean by that?”, “How did Christianity change that?”, “What do you believe?”—you then have a completely natural opening to explain the Gospel more explicitly.

Putting the Gospel in your testimony in some convos you might have is where you would like to go. But only if it allows for it, and sometimes if you recognize that the Holy Spirit is genuinely prompting you to continue towards that. Because the goal is to introduce them to God and be on mission with the Gospel.

 If you can get to how God saved you, the testimony itself can absolutely contain the Gospel, rather than merely mentioning that you're a Christian. And it guides them to Christ. So it is good to (weave it in) include it. 

Your testimony has two dimensions:

• Your personal story: what you were like, what God did, how you came to faith, and how He has changed you.

• The Gospel within that story: who God is, our sin, Christ's death and resurrection, and salvation by grace through faith.

So you could say something like:

“I grew up thinking Christianity was mostly about being a good person. But I eventually realized that I wasn't just someone who needed to improve—I was a sinner who needed to be made new by God so I could pursue righteousness. I came to understand that I couldn't make myself right with God, and that Jesus Christ lived the righteous life I couldn't live and died in the place of sinners, bearing God's judgment. He rose again, and salvation is by grace through faith in Him. God brought me to repentance and faith, and that's how I became a Christian.”

That's testimony and Gospel at the same time.

And you don't necessarily need to give the entire thing every time. You can give a 30-second version, a 2-minute version, or the fuller story depending on the conversation.

The key is that “God saved me” naturally gives you an opportunity to explain saved from what, saved by whom, and saved how. That is where your personal testimony and the Gospel overlap beautifully.

Here is a good example, and you can write up your testimony similarly, so you ensure a clear Gospel presentation is included, and that can help you guide them towards Christ.  

That way you can use it to move them to the next part of the convo. To call them to the Gospel - themselves. 

Once the Gospel has been clearly explained in your testimony

The next step is “How do I help them respond honestly to what they've just heard?”

A natural progression could be:

1. Ask what they think

After explaining the Gospel:

“What do you think about that?”

Or:

“Have you ever heard Christianity explained that way before?”

This is often the simplest transition. Now you're listening rather than continuing to talk.

2. Find out where they are

Their answer will usually reveal what the real obstacle is.

They might say:

• “I've never thought about it.” → explore and guide.

• “I don't believe in God.” → talk about their understanding of God, correct them on who God is, as you show them the world and creation around them (including themselves).

• “I'm a good person.” → discuss sin, righteousness, and grace by taking them through the good test (Gospel) .

• “I believe Jesus existed, but…” → explain how there are many false jesus's in the world but only ine true one. Then move towards what Jesus said ("You must be born again",& "repent and believe the Gospel" explain the Gospel, making it personal [the good test does that]. 

• “I want to believe, but I have doubts.” → ask what those doubts are. Share the Gospel and ask why would anyine delay recievung that free gift. Take it today. 

• “That actually makes sense.” → you can ask whether they've personally trusted Christ, or understood the Gospel before- and go from there.

3. Bring it from “Christianity” to them

A very natural question is:

“Have you ever really understood the Gospel and why God calls us to obey it?”

That lets you dive right into it towards the good test (without saying thats what it is) so it is personal. Just use it to explain the Gospel. "I'll make it personal to you, so you see Why Jesus. Just be truthful with me here..." The Gospel is to personally confront us. So we take action (obey it). 

“Do you think you've personally put your trust in Christ?”

Or, less directly:

“Where would you say you are with God right now?”

That's an important transition because you've moved from “Here's what happened to me” to “What do you make of Christ?”

It is helpful even when talking with people who "always been Christian" or probing if theyre a false convert. Many profess Christ but are not saved. God can use you to help them "examine yourself to see if you really are in the Faith" as Scripture calls us to do. 

For those unsure of their salvation, walking them through the Gospel (using the good test) can help them see if they recieved a false gospel, or if theyre saved but need to grow in the Faith. 

Invite them to consider Christ—not merely your experience

You can say:

“I don't expect you to become a Christian just because I told you my story. But I'd really encourage you to think about what Jesus actually claimed and what He did. Would you be interested in looking at some of that with me?”

Share the Gospel well and fully. And that can lead to guiding them to reading John, Mark, Romans, later. But telling them nit to delay salvation, their life might not exist here in 5 minutes or tomorrow. So get right with God quickly. 

If they're ready, explain what responding means

If they say something like, “I think I do want to follow Jesus,” don't make the response merely “Say this prayer.”

Help them understand what they're doing:

“That's ultimately repentance and faith—turning from your sin and trusting in Christ, not trusting in your own goodness.”

Then you can ask:

“Is that something you want to do?”

If they genuinely want to trust Christ, you can tell them to sinply with a humble and contrite heart pray to God, and after you'll pray over them—but nite the prayer isn't what saves them. Their Faith in the Savior does. Christ saves, and the person is called to repent and believe.

If they're not ready, don't manufacture a decision

You can simply say:

“That's okay. Can I ask what you're wrestling with?” 

Sometimes the most fruitful thing you can do is keep the conversation open.

And this fits particularly well with the Christian mission: you faithfully proclaim the Gospel, call people to repentance and faith, and trust God to work through His Word. You don't manufacture the person's response. You dont want false converts. 

“For the word of the cross is folly to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God.” — 1 Corinthians 1:18

But you can call them to not delay. Whatever decision they make today is either rejection or recieving. If God is going to save them right now, He will. 

You can ask "Is there anything really that should stop someone from recieving this amazing gift God offers us, right away?" Abd that calls with urgency but also points out there's no reason to not get right with God right now. We do know though that sinners love sin. And if God doesn't save them right now, it doesn't mean they wont get saved. They might survive until tonight and while in Bed get right with God. And like the Ethiopian eunich - God will lead him. Just as He did for you and me (our Christian walk). Just be faithful to be on mission. Looking for divine appointments to reach folk for Christ. 

Even if thats during life situations, tragedy, or going about your day. Be on the look out for these opportunities. Be faithful to proclaim the Gospel, and make sure your life is going in the godly maturing direction so your life shines forth Christ (as you go about life), so they see Christ in you. 

The basic conversational movement can be:

Your testimony → Gospel → “What do you think?” → listen → address their questions/objections → “What will you do with Christ?” → invite them to consider/read/respond.

The key is that the Gospel is the center, not your conversational technique, not your testimony. 

Bring glory to God, the one whom all glory is due, if you use your testimony, and whenever you share the Gospel. He made salvation possible, He did the work, He redeems in & by Christ. 

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